Overcoming the lie, the deception and destruction of R.E.J.E.C.T.I.O.N. by Pieter Kirstein

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God said to me one day; "ALL OF THE REJECTION THAT YOU HAVE BEEN THROUGH JUST AMPLIFIES MY ACCEPTANCE OF YOU. THEY HAD TO REJECT YOU BECAUSE YOU NEVER BELONGED TO THEM."

Rejection is a reality which all of God's true children must overcome and conquer and it can only be accomplished by the love of God.

In John 17 Jesus spoke the following about His disciples (true followers) and said "I have given them Your word; and the world has hated them, because they are not of the world, even as I am not of the world."

In John 15:18  He spoke these words "If the world hates you, you know that it hated Me before it hated you.  19  If you were of the world, the world would love its own: but because you are not of the world, but I have chosen you out of the world, therefore the world hates you. 20  Remember the word that I said unto you, The servant is not greater than his lord. If they have persecuted Me, they will also persecute you; if they have kept my saying, they will keep yours also.

Rejection is a demonic spirit and normally operates with other demons like;

Fear of rejection
Self rejection
Self loathing
Self hatred
Self accusation
Performance
Guilt
Addiction
Self condemnation
Spirits of lust and perversion
Pornography and all other vile kinds of spirits of bondage and enslavement because of the roots of rejection embedded deep within a wounded  soul.

Please allow me to give you personal testimony of my personal war, battles and suffering with the rejection issue.
Rejection is also the root of performance. We want to and feel the need, drive and urge to perform for fear of rejection. Even in our pursuit and relationship with God rejection can cripple us and deceive us into a quest to try and earn the free grace given to us and afforded unto us because of the work which Jesus accomplished on our behalf. There is nothing that we can do to earn our acceptance by God. He accepts us when we embrace the Lordship of His Son as Saviour of the world. He accepts us the day we choose to turn to Jesus for salvation. It's by grace through faith in Jesus that we are saved from the destruction of Satan's kingdom.

Everything we receive from God Almighty from the time of our spiritual birth is because of what Jesus did. It starts with grace and carries on because of grace into all of eternity. Yes it's a grace not to be abused by doing as we please but rather a grace to be appreciated and appropriated by allowing the God of grace to change us and transform us to be more and more like His Son Jesus. The Holy Spirit is the Spirit of grace but far too many Christians want to do their own thing and go their own way seeking to establish their own righteousness before God through their own religious works. We must humble ourselves in the Presence of the Lord and realise our deep intense need of His intervention on our behalf. The kingdom does not belong to those who are self-sufficient but to them who only put their trust in God to heal, deliver and change them into the likeness, the image and the righteousness of Christ.

Faithfulness in our relationship and pursuit of the Lord produces lasting Holy Spirit empowered freedom, obedience and restoration.

But we don't build or pursue a relationship with the God of our salvation to be accepted in the beloved because He accepts us and adopts us as His kids through and by the blood of Jesus.

The price has been paid so the Christian walk is not about performance it's about a transformation and change that only an all powerful God can work into us as we build intimate relationship with Him. We grow from glory to glory.

Many if not most people suffer from rejection because of the use and abuse wrought and inflicted into their hearts through past relationships. Many of us, as with myself, got rejected by their mothers in the womb because of trauma at birth, other complications or even unwanted pregnancy.

I remember when, through Holy Spirit counselling, God supernaturally took me back into the womb and as a developing baby I was laying in this evil darkness filled with rejection. I am a twin and my parents wanted only another girl. If the mother rejects her child in the womb then that baby feels all of the negative emotional strain and pain and this opens doors to demonic influence. If the mother rejects her child in the womb then she legally gives it to the dark side then the baby gets adopted by demonic parents. I was given to a wherewolf in the realm of the spirit.

During another deliverance session the question was asked to God. Lord please bring his mother before him and suddenly in the spirit this wherewolf appeared in front of me. I drew into a fetus position. Then Jesus came and stood between me and this evil entity.

When the Lord took me through the womb I did not want to be born because nobody wanted me but then Jesus showed up and the power and the presence of His love caused all of that darkness to vanish and disappear. Then the Lord told me, " YOU ARE HERE BECAUSE I WANTED YOU"

It is written in Psalm 27:10, a scripture which God personally gave me, When, my own father and mother, had forsaken me, Then, Yahweh, took me up!

And Psalm 139: O LORD, you have searched me, and known me. 2  You know my downsitting and my uprising, you understand my thought afar off.
3  You search out my path and my lying down, and are acquainted with all my ways. 4  For there is not a word in my tongue, but, lo, O LORD, you know it altogether. 5  You have hedged me behind and before, and laid your hand upon me. 6  Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high, I cannot attain unto it. 7  Where shall I go from your Spirit? or where shall I flee from your presence?  8  If I ascend up into heaven, you are there: if I make my bed in Sheol, behold, you are there. 9  If I take the wings of the morning, and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea;
10  Even there shall your hand lead me, and your right hand shall hold me.
11  If I say, Surely the darkness shall cover me; even the night shall be light about me.12  Yea, the darkness hides not from you; but the night shines as the day: the darkness and the light are both alike to you. 13  For you have formed my inward parts: you have covered me in my mother's womb.
14  I will praise you; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are your works; and that my soul knows right well. 15  My frame was not hid from you, when I was made in secret, and skillfully wrought in the lowest parts of the earth. 16  Your eyes did see my substance, being yet unformed; and in your book they were all written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them.
17  How precious also are your thoughts unto me, O God! how great is the sum of them! 18  If I should count them, they are more in number than the sand: when I awake, I am still with you.

Psa 68:5 A father of the fatherless, and a judge of the widows, is God in his holy habitation.

God will never reject His children. We basically reject ourselves and make things much worse when we persist in willfull sin and rebellion because of self destructive behaviour, like addictions. Any addiction becomes self destructive if not displaced by the love and healing power of God. He wants to heal transform and restore us but we must allow Him. Many times addiction is rooted in rejection because we find false comfort or even pleasure in its deceptive grip. It becomes a way of escape because we fear to face our pain. Many times when rejection is triggered we immediately switch subconsciously into our coping mechanisms and we do certain things which can become cycles of self abusive and self destructive behaviour. It's like we run to our false comfort zones but in the meantime we actually make things worse. We desperately need the Lord to fix us, we need Him to heal our brokenness. True peace, comfort and love can only be found in the arms of God. When we get rejected by people or loved ones then deep wounds can be inflicted in the human soul. It also depends on the amount of abuse abandonment or rejection we have suffered and over which period.

It is wrought as different layers of pain and destruction into the soul. Only the Spirit of God can dismantle these satanic structures, renew our thought patterns and restore our souls.

Addiction comes in so many forms: Addiction to attention. Addiction to praise from people. Addiction to other people's opinions or acceptance. Addiction to sex, to alcohol, to pornography, to drugs, to nicotine and addiction to medication. Addiction to television, to sport, to pleasure and entertainment etc.

BUT HOW MANY OF US ARE ADDICTED TO GOD?

I myself had to work for years with God through so many deep wounds and different levels of pain and rejection so I have a certain level of understanding which He has taught and wrought into me.

...only in Him is complete liberty, fulfilment and freedom and nothing and nobody can satisfy the human heart as His holy love.

You become addicted to God when you ask Him to empower you to pursue Him with every fibre of your being. You become addicted to God when you allow Him to replace your habits with intimacy and time spent in His Presence. You become addicted to the Lover of your needy fragile wounded soul when you allow His love to invade your heart. It's like Jesus said to me one day; "THE DIFFERENCE IS PIETER, YOU ALLOWED ME TO."

We must face our pain if we desire to be loosed from the satanic grip of rejection. It can be absolute hellish to experience but if you desire to overcome then war it's gonna be. The liberating reality is to know that God is in control and every demon of hell are subject to our King. He will walk with you through your pain and surely restoration and renewal will be done.

Our prayer, cry and petition should be; O GOD PLEASE COME AND TAKE HOLD OF ME IN THE VERY DEPTHS OF ME. LORD MY GOD I ASK THAT YOU BECOME THE STRONGHOLD IN MY LIFE AND THAT YOU SHIELD AND PROTECT ME FROM MY ENEMIES,  INCLUDING MY OWN CARNAL WOUNDED AND BROKEN SELF? Lord please rescue me and prevent me from destroying myself through performance. 

If we understand the fact, the power and amazing reality of God's acceptance of us no matter how shattered, battered or broken we are, we would find peace. O He knows exactly what He got himself into when He got us in the first place. I love what Jesus said to His first messed up and dysfunctional disciples in John 15:16  You have not chosen Me, but I have chosen you. How humbling is that? We weren't even looking for Him and then one day His statement in John 6:44 came into fulfilment in our lost, needy, messed up and broken lives, "No man can come to Me, except the Father who has sent Me draw him.

The only way to root out a deep stronghold that is rooted in deep pain and rejection is to allow the Great Physician Jesus Christ to do major heart surgery. When the wound is healed and all agreements with the demons have been broken then the darkness have nothing to hold on to any longer and must leave. Demon spirits operate through and in deception and they love to enslave us through our own brokenness. We need to allow and ask the Lord to heal us through open heart surgery. Obviously any major surgery will be painful but it's only for our good. The end results are always so very worth it. Ask the Lord for His grace and boldness to face your demons.

As children of God we cannot keep on revelling around in self pity or in our brokenness. We must come to Him to do the healing and deliverance that we need to be free. Why would anybody live in self destruction if God provides the way out through His Son?

Why would any person choose to stay sick and diseased in sin, rejection and brokenness when Jesus Christ is the cure?

Did we forget that God is love and that He is patient, humble, kind, gentle, faithful, merciful, understanding and well able to do exceedingly abundantly far above all we can ask or think? 

How can anyone reject you beloved child of God when "THE ONE" who is the very Personification of divine love has accepted you into His eternal family?

Did Jesus not say in Luke 10:28 And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand. 29 My Father, has given them to Me, is greater than all; and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand. 30 I and My Father are one.”

Do not allow your past to destroy your future or even the present. GOD IS GREATER THAN ALL.

A person that is healed of rejection is a great danger to Satan because he walks and operates in the fear of God.  When through God's acceptance and love you have discovered your real and true identity as His beloved child and apple of His eye then you will stand for righteousness even if you stand alone. If your heart have been healed and invaded by God's unconditional holy all-satisfying love then it won't matter what anybody think of you anymore and it won't matter who rejects you because the standard, the power and the righteousnes of the Lord's truth will preserve your life, protect your heart and keep and protect you in any situation.

This is why God in His divine wisdom placed scriptures as the following in His book, the Bible; Romans 8: 33  Who shall lay anything to the charge of God's elect? It is God that justifies.  34  Who is he that condemns? It is Christ that died, yea rather, that is risen again, who is even at the right hand of God, who also makes intercession for us. 35  Who shall separate us from the love of Christ? shall tribulation, or distress, or persecution, or famine, or nakedness, or peril, or sword? 36  As it is written, For your sake we are killed all the day long; we are accounted as sheep for the slaughter. 37  Nay, in all these things we are more than conquerors through him that loved us. 38  For I am persuaded, that neither death, nor life, nor angels, nor principalities, nor powers, nor things present, nor things to come, 39  Nor height, nor depth, nor any other creation, shall be able to separate us from the love of God, which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.

WE MUST ASK THE HOLY SPIRIT TO FORTIFY THE WALLS OF OUR HEARTS WITH THE LIGHT AND POWER OF GOD'S TRUTH SO THAT WHEN DECEPTION ARISE TO COME AGAINST US, IT WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE EXPOSED FOR WHAT IT IS AND BE RESISTED.

2 Corinthians 10: 3  For though we walk in the flesh, we do not war according to the flesh: 4  (For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strongholds;) 5  Casting down arguments, and every high thing that exalts itself against the knowledge of God, and bringing into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ;

You need to ask the Holy Spirit through the renewing of your mind and thought life to reconstruct your way of thinking because many times the hurts of past destructive relationships can be used against you to destroy relationships with people actually placed in your life by God to love you and to be a blessing to you.

Sometimes old thoughts patterns and imprinted hurts of pain and rejection gets triggered in some way then we automatically switch into an old Satanic train of thought or defense mechanism. The demons operating through those old subconscious programming can deceive us to make us think all people are the same by reminding us of the ones who has used, abused, abandoned or rejected us.

They do this because they do not want to see us happy. They want to enslave us to and in our past. When somebody makes a mistake, like we all do, suddenly subconsciously we see the person who has hurt us in front of us. When offense is taken a relationship actually meant to be a blessing can be destroyed.

I have witnessed the destruction of rejection in relationships so many times. Old wounds inflicted through wrong upbringing and parenting can cause a deep root or roots of rejection, then because we were rejected we reject easily too or because our parents were dysfunctional the damage caused in our souls can open the door to so many kinds of bondage. We can even become cold, withdrawn and isolated within because we suffered rejection as a child then we build inner walls of defense that opens us up to a controlling spirit. If I can control my environment then people cannot hurt me but this is a lie from the enemy. Control is a form of witchcraft because we use people or manipulate situations or circumstances to fit our own selfish agendas or to further our own ends or desires.

We must ask God to expose our hearts, our motives and our true intentions and we must ask Him to purify them. We all built inner walls of defense inside through hurt and pain and God knows about all of them. He knows the spirits operating through every stronghold inside of us and we cannot hide from Him. He will love you to wholeness if you allow Him to. Also many times people who suffer from rejection can belittle other people to make themselves look better.

Rejection puts us in performance so we need to come before the Lord in all honesty and ask Him to heal, deliver and transform our hearts because He created us and is the only Person who has the divine power to do so.

If rejection puts us in performance then we will find ourselves in competition with others. You do not always have to look the best, drive the best car, preach or teach the best, own the best of everything, or even put other people in performance to serve your own selfish interests to make yourself feel better. God wants us to operate out of a divine spiritual love which only He can manifest in our hearts. His kind of love has the divine ability and power to love the unlovable and the worst of the worst. This is why Jesus made that statement that L.O.V.E. is the fulfilment of the law because if we have been conquered and healed by God in all areas of our hearts then we will love as He loves.

If you want to be always better than other people then you may be driven by rejection. If you are always in performance to be accepted then you may well be suffering from rejection. We are called to become like Jesus. He suffered rejection so much so that He was crucified by that generation. He was rejected by His own loved ones. He was rejected by the religious world and so many others but still He chose to walk in love, to serve, to humble himself in the Presence of His Father because He had a mission to accomplish, He had a price to pay to save us from ourselves and to heal our wounded hearts with the power of His love. He was despised and rejected so that we might be accepted in the beloved. He was rejected because He chose to accept the worst of sinners.

The Lord understands rejection very well but His love overcame all of Satan's wiles and schemes. The love of God has the power to heal any wounded heart and to restore any wounded or shattered soul. His perfect love can drive and root out all fear of us being rejected even by God.

We need to be awake as scripture says in 1Pe 5:8 Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil, as a roaring lion, walks about, seeking whom he may devour.

A suggested prayer; Righteous Father I come this day before you Lord by the holy blood and righteousness of Jesus Your Son who was rejected so that I might be accepted as your beloved child. I choose by faith now to bring every person before Your throne who has rejected me, including myself. I make a public declaration in the courts of heaven that I now willingly choose to release and forgive them all completely.

My battle is not against flesh and blood but against Satan's already defeated kingdom so I choose to take my eyes of the people they have been working through throughout my whole life and choose focus on Christ's forgiveness instead. Lord Jesus You were innocent yet You took all of my rejection and it's pain upon You when You hung on the cross. I want to forgive God, as You forgave me of all my guilt and shame.

I come to declare against all rejection, darkness and deception of Satan operating in my life that You my Father, You Lord Jesus and You Holy Spirit are far greater and infinitely more powerful than any dark spirit that would even dare to keep me further in any kind or form of bondage through some satanically based, erected, raised up or established stronghold.

I declare to all darkness operating in the depths of my wounded soul that the power of the blood and cross of Christ now be against you in Jesus name. I choose willingly to release, forgive, bless and love through the perfect heart of Christ every person whom the enemy has used, including myself to cause hurt, rejection, pain, affliction, torment, abandonment or any other form of abuse upon my life.

Jesus by the power of God's conquering love destroyed the whole kingdom of darkness and I choose, by submitting myself to Christ in every area of my life and heart, to do the same. I choose to yield myself now Holy Spirit to the power of the cross. If I am dead to myself, to my feelings, to my offenses, to my rights, to my opinions, to all my hurts and pain then no demon in hell or any person will have any power over me.

I choose to die now to the influence of the power of my accusers and my enemies by yielding myself to the Spirit of the cross of Jesus Christ. Holy Spirit I ask you according to Colossians 2:11-15 to now judge and cut away the works of darkness. Lord I ask that by a demonstration of Your divine power You again spoil principalities and powers making a public spectacle of them in Jesus name. Please honor and confirm the suffering, the sacrifice, the love and forgiveness of Almighty God through the cross of Jesus now against the kingdom of darkness.

I expose through the truth and power of Christ's unconditional love the roots of deception and rejection wherever You see it in me God. I do this all by faith in Your all-sufficiency o God because I know that the battle belongs to the Lord of hosts and yes heavenly Father where Satan resists I call forth reinforcements of warring angels to break through and overwhelm them by the battle standard of my God. I declare that no weapon that Satan possesses can overpower the grace of my God as I choose to humble myself before You this day. Please forgive and release me Lord by the power of Your acceptance and love wherever I am holding unto any root or spirit of rejection.

Father even where I am resisting Your will because of rejection wrought into me as an abused child I now choose to totally renounce it and brake all agreements with it. I ask that God will come and renew my heart and my way of thinking to think like You think and to love like You love. Jesus I petition that the throne of God will invade every area where I was wounded through rejection. Jesus You hold the keys of Hades and Death and You as the King of kings have the divine power to open and close all doors.

I ask that You send forth Your powerful angels to set me free from captivity. I call the fire of God's judgement upon every root of rejection.

Lord walk me through a process of healing and restoration and deliver me from the deception and destruction of the spirit of rejection. Also Father where an orphan spirit attached itself in me because of rejection I disown, reject, divorce and renounce it. Holy Spirit by God's divine rulership, ownership and power I ask; LET YOUR KINGDOM NOW RISE UP INSIDE OF ME AND KICK OUT THE DARKNESS IN THE NAME OF JESUS. I ask that the Spirit of God now come and destroy the works, the assignments, the structures and hold of rejection within me. I ask for restoration and renewal in Jesus name. I brake every agreement with any spirit of darkness in Jesus name and through Christ I command them to be cast into torment.

Father let Your works come forth and be established in my heart and life. Let all rejection in me be displaced by the truth and the power of God's acceptance in the name of Jesus. I brake every curse of rejection in Jesus name and I release myself by the power of God's indwelling Holy Spirit into the arms of Love.

Jesus Lord only God knows what happened in my mother's womb and if I was rejected as a developing child I forgive my mother and my father. I also declare a divorce between me and any demonic surrogate parents that took me captive through the sin of rejection. I renounce them and ask You to judge them and to cast them out of My life. Jesus let Your love flood my foundations and please heal and restore any structural damage that was inflicted upon me in the womb. I ask that God take me by His Spirit through the process of development as a child and cause me to be conceived and received in love. I brake all inner vows and agreements because of rejection in Jesus name. By faith in God's operation in my life and by the authority of His acceptance I now brake the power of rejection.

NOBODY CAN ACTUALLY REJECT ME BECAUSE I HAVE BEEN ACCEPTED BY GOD. I am the most highest accepted person because my Father is God Almighty.